I would like to prance about on my own coal, thank you very much

I am thinking about how to avoid cryptic, double-edged and multilayered comments. Bluntly, I'd like to say that I am sick beyond words of trying to understand people and their academic load/career potential. I mean, why is it that everything will have to revolve around them and their special needs? I just want to slap them and say, you may have embarked on this path on your own or were coerced, but can you please stop spilling your excesses on me? Can you just fucking suck it up, and do what you want without having to make the rest of the population feel guilty and part of your woes? My god it has been twenty-four years of this type of existence. The guilt, the support, the stress, the worry. And to be honest, there is no genuine empathy. Because you know you are really being taken for a ride. And as you grow older, you meet more people like them. And you are in your most vulnerable state-old and still prancing on their hot coal.